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Post by Stanley on Oct 6, 2011 11:07:53 GMT -5
By the looks of things, I won't be around this site or much any of you for much longer. The past few nights have shown me that my thoughts or feelings on matters aren't much welcome with some of you. I've been down paths like this before, and they never turn out well. Here's the gist of what's happening:
Friend A introduces someone I hate to Friend B. Somehow not thinking that Friend B and Hate will want to know about eachother due to being buds with Friend A. Hate makes nice with Friend B and they feel like getting to know eachother better. Then, rather than respect my wishes not to be near Hate, tell me that I have to deal with it.
Eventually, Hate will keep playing nice until eventually, they've gained the niceties of a group of friends, and said friends will simply tell me I'm being stupid, that Hate is innocent, that I'm horrible, etc, and that I need to start making friends with Hate lest I don't want to associate with them at all.
That's the short version anyway, so really, it's best if I just cut you all off here, rather than go through a whole line of drama. I'm sorry it has to be this way, but that's how it goes. So, farewell, and have fun.
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Post by PanbanRichard on Oct 6, 2011 16:26:55 GMT -5
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Post by Jace on Oct 6, 2011 19:11:40 GMT -5
So this is the reason. If that's what you think, then I am very hurt that you would underestimate my loyalty, Stanley. You know, I think very highly of you. I thought you already knew that. I know I said I wouldnt say something stupid and rash while I was emotional, but jesus, Stan. After what I said to you... I know I've only known you for a few months... but this is probably the most hurtful thing a friend has ever done to me. Maybe you didn't think of me as highly as I thought of you. I hope you come to your senses and realize that you are actually just hurting alot of people who care about you. And if you dont like someone, I would assume there's a good reason, and trust you on it. Because you're my friend, not this guy you guys were talking to online. Because that's what friends do. They trust each other. Not drop of the face off the earth. And as mad as I may sound, I just want you to come back. And I dont care if this is in public. Because maybe other people need to see it too. I hope you see it.
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Post by ita on Oct 10, 2011 16:13:22 GMT -5
Aww no! D: I'd choose you over hate any day!
This is depressing... D:
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Post by Stanley on Oct 10, 2011 23:46:19 GMT -5
So I've been thinking about what alot of you have said to me over the past week, and I just have one simple question after all of this; Why? What do you possibly gain from keeping me around? What could possibly be worth keeping the arguments, and the fights, and all the drama that is likely to happen again sometime in the future? I'm just honestly curious.
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Post by Ryo on Oct 11, 2011 3:48:50 GMT -5
So I've been thinking about what alot of you have said to me over the past week, and I just have one simple question after all of this; Why? What do you possibly gain from keeping me around? What could possibly be worth keeping the arguments, and the fights, and all the drama that is likely to happen again sometime in the future? I'm just honestly curious. Friendship, you dolt. You seem to think there are no fun times to balance things out. You're quite wrong in that regard.
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Post by Stanley on Oct 12, 2011 0:57:39 GMT -5
Bad things tend to outweigh the good.
So, what then, your answer is that you want me around simply for the sake of having me as a friend?
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Post by Ryo on Oct 12, 2011 5:34:34 GMT -5
Not in this case. Stop thinking so pessimistically.
In the basest of terms, yes. But you should know what constitutes a friend. And that still applies even with such a basic answer.
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Post by Jace on Oct 12, 2011 6:37:50 GMT -5
You know, I'll admit, sometimes, friendship can be rough. But we want you around because we care about you. :/ I wish you got that. It really sucks not having you around. We all think about you a lot, and we just want you back. It's not the same without you. So what if we argue? Doesn't it mean something if we still think of each other as friends despite all of that? Differences in opinions can weaken a friendship... but in many cases, especially with true friends, it strengthens it.
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Post by Stanley on Oct 12, 2011 16:49:53 GMT -5
I'm working to readd you all to MSN and Skype, so fork over your names if I have yet to add you back. No, this does not mean I'm coming back, I just have my own little personal messages to you all. Some more than others.
"Friend" has a different meaning amongst people.
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Post by ita on Oct 12, 2011 18:49:48 GMT -5
Friends are friends BECAUSE they can tolerate all the drama and stuff that goes on with one another. There's no point in making friends with someone if you're just going to drop them after a few drama-filled experiences!
Either you are in it for the long haul or you're not in it at all, you know? I may not have been on any of the IM browsers or here much the past few months (personal dilemmas, mostly) but I still would much rather you stayed with us all! D:
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Post by Sheena on Oct 12, 2011 19:16:18 GMT -5
NOES! Who am I supposed to go “WHO ARE YOU?!” to? D: I has a sad. It wouldn't be the same if I were to go like that to someone else. *Puppy dog eyes* ...So many things happened while I was gone... >-<
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Post by Stanley on Oct 12, 2011 23:56:59 GMT -5
I've decided that I should return, and see this through to the end rather than run from it. Will you all forgive me, and accept me back?
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Post by ita on Oct 13, 2011 0:47:10 GMT -5
Of course! Glad that you've decided to stay! <3
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Post by Sheena on Oct 13, 2011 11:56:37 GMT -5
Fantastic! *Happy face* :'D
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